I can tell you what happened ever since. By the time I got back to Chiang Mai from staying in Pai, I met Zach (27) from Townsville, Australia. He had to leave straight back home the next day, so we didn't get to spend real time with eachother. But for the fact that we got along very well we were skyping and texting through Facebook Messenger a lot. Anyway I flew back to Bangkok, where I stayed another few days. Whilst staying there I had to book my plane to Hong Kong, when my friend from Taiwan told me that he can't show me around in his hometown. Zach and I hecked out a plan, He invited me to stay at his place in Townsville for as long as I want, that way we could spend time with eachother as well. That meant I cancelled my plans for Hong Kong and Taiwan.
So I flew to Bali and from Bali to Cairns. He picked me up on Friday morning from the airport and we drove 4 hours back to Townsville, where we continued talking for ages.
We had a wonderful time with eachother but we chose the wrong time. He was very busy at work and for the fact that he had a lot of houskeeping due he was very stressed. So we decided that I go back earlier and we meet again one day in the future, that way we could save the situation and not bother eachother.
I flew back to Bali with a warm feeling around my heart, a bit hurt but I knew that was the right decision.
Now I spent already 10 days here and in a few days I fly to Singapore.